Nothing like answering your own question. For those looking for a way to continue to use their steering wheel remote, try this one for size: http://www.go2pac.com/products/products_new_detail.cfm?ID=1
from http://www.go2pac.com
I've not tried it yet, but all indications are it will work. I'll post again when I have the final answer.
By the way this should work for many cars, not just VWs.