My best guess at the moment would be that the AP in the MR814 doesn't like the ME102 working in APClient mode. That has always been a problem area. You might think having two wireless products from the same company might help, but of course they were probably actually developed by completely different people and bought in (the ME102's hardware and firmware is used by several different companies).
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