OK... all you do is create 2 dummy accounts in addition to your existing account. We'll call them email (real account) email1 and email2. All you do is log into a shell on cox and a a file called .forward. Inside this text file, you write:

[email protected]
[email protected]

That's it. anything that gets sent to email will automatically get rerouted to the 2 dummy accounts. Now you have 2 accounts that get EVERYTHING. The reall account will get no mail because it is being forwarded. With me so far? Good. Now you just set each computer to check a different account. Have them remove mail from server. The only weirdness is that you set the reply-to address in your email program to be the real address, as opposed to the dummy ones. This way, no matter what you send, when people reply, it will go to the real address and be split, as opposed to going directly to your dummy account (bypassing the split).

Make sense? The only thing you really need is access to a login shell on cox's server. If you still need help send me a PM with your phone number and I'll call you.