i dont drink alcohol and im not into organized sports.

Hmm... how about non-organized sports? Hiking, etc?

ive no vehicle

Oooh... that makes things more difficult. Got a bike? Maybe look into getting a cheap motorbike?

and currently spend all my time rereading robert jordans wheel of time series.

Good series, but that's going to just keep you secluded, which makes moving that much more difficult.

theres a girl here id particularly like to meet, but no way of getting to where shes at short of public transportation, which ive no clue of the service area on.

That, my friend, is where Google comes in. Try here or here. Now go meet her.

i literally just flew in and am friendless and idealess on things to do. i hate moving.

Sucks, doesn't it? The only way you'll meet people is to figure out what you like to do, and go out and do it. Does the base have any sort of activity center that organizes things? How about just a base-wide email list for that sort of thing? How about a local college that you can take classes at? Church? Volunteer somewhere? I'm sure that people involved in these last two would be more than willing to come out to the base and pick you up...

Best of luck.