Explore your backyard or town then. I might be lucky living in the Bay Area where opportunities like that abound, but part of the whole deal is the search. And if there isn't time, MAKE time. If the lack of time has you so down, then do something about it. . . Take a sick day, dissappear. Do whatever is required. Your happiness is more important than whatever it is that's keeping you down. TMHO at least. I know it sounds like oversimplification, but it's only as complicated as you want to make it.

And next on Dr. Phil....