I agree with Tony.

For a sanity check, if you have a multimeter check for continuity between the spade terminal and the metal case. If they are connected (case should be grounded for a number of reasons) then it's definitely a ground.

Looks like that website you found has all you need.

Good luck.
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Christian
#40104192 120Gb (no longer in my E36 M3, won't fit the E46 M3)