Will it be OK to cutomise my existing ISO lead and T the empeg into it ? Or will this not deliver enough power ?

The only way you're going to know is to simply try it. Depends on how much current the other head unit is eating up, and what the wiring is like to the fuse box from that connector. In Theory, it should work, but we don't live in Theory, do we?
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Tony Fabris