(Not being an audiophile, id like to know how to set my 20 band parametric equalizer)

ive read alot on getting software on laptops and high end microphones and checking wavelengths and pink noise and white noise and all that jazz...
id really like to know how i should go about setting it so it sounds the best. i cant carry a tune through a doorway, so i was wondering what the best way to approach this would be.

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