I disagree about going for the throat. It's not because I think the seller deserves another chance - he doesn't. But we're only talking about 32 bucks here. If the seller decided to say FU, how much effort is it worth putting out to get 32 bucks back? Whatever that effort would be, I would guess that it's more then if this was resolved in a friendly way. If I were the buyer and I believed there was still a chance to get my money/merchandise, I would keep trying until I was convinced it was pointless. Only then would I undertake the likely greater hassle of trying to forcibly get my money back.

-Dylan