Dude.

Sucks.

I feel for you.

Was that ``I love you but we're too different'' thing a cop-out (read: ``I'm already sleeping with someone else'') or does she really have expectations that unrealistic? I hate to say it, because I don't want you to turn into stalker-boy, but maybe you need to convince her that you are the one. There's a thin line there between obsession and ... whatever that would be. There may be no line at all, but I can assure you and her that no two people have that much in common. It's all about how well the differences work together.