Wow... this is really screwed up. The same thing pretty much happned to me last night, minus the living together part, with my girlfriend of 3 years. It really [censored] sucks because I can't just convince her that change isn't bad she has to find that out on her own. She makes it sound like she has to be this totally different person for it to work. Anyway if I sit here any longer im going to have 100's of pages of random feelings. Good luck to you, I wish you the best. Hopefully this is the bump in the road for us that we just need cross over before everything works out...

-Greg