Go for it. The question is, which "it" ?

If you want to keep the babe, you must go east with her, and paraglide in Franconia Notch etc..

Otherwise, convince yourself the relationship will work out (it won't), and go for the Utah opportunity. Pity it ain't closer to Moab, but things are nice all through that area, if you steer clear of the Mor^H^H^Hlocal radicals.

Cheers!