Hello! I've been away from this board for a couple of years for various reasons. The primary reason was that I quit my job, dropped out of society and became a bum in Amsterdam for a year. (A well financed bum, that is. Some dotCom era options finally paid out in 2005.)

I considered all kinds of crazy lifestyle changes but ended up right back where I started - in the US doing C++ and .NET software development. I'm content with the career choice but not with living in the US. I love the urban, European lifestyle and Amsterdam in particular. I've been back in the US for almost a year and I'm convinced more than ever that this isn't where I want to be.

I'm ready now to uproot my life and move to Holland. But there is so much I don't know despite the year I spent there. I was living as a tourist and didn't have practical concerns about working and finances. So I'm here asking for help because this forum has the smartest (and most handsome) people I know including real live Europeans.

The first question is can I work there? I've explored Dutch job sites such as www.monsterboard.nl and there appears to be a market for my skills without requiring I know Dutch. I do not have an EU work permit but I qualify as a "Highly Skilled Knowledge Migrant". What I don't know is how widely that program is supported by employers. Another option is to set myself up as a business and be paid as a contractor instead of as an employee. I have no idea what is involved in that or if it is an arrangement a company would be willing to do for my services.

The next question is whether I can afford a lifestyle that I find comfortable. This is the hardest for me as an American. The salaries I'm seeing for a Senior Software Engineer are shockingly low by US standards. It looks like I can expect to make around 50K Euro with a tax rate of 40%. Does this sound right for a strong candidate with 12 years of Windows development experience? In the Washington DC area I can earn $100K give or take. And I don't think the weak dollar is relevant for this discussion because it seems that 1 dollar in the US has about the same buying power as 1 Euro does in Holland.

So I take home 2500 Euro a month. An apartment in the canal area or Oude West of Amsterdam will consume about half that, leaving 1250 Euro a month for all non housing expenses and play money. That will definitely not support the kind of lifestyle and toy budget I’m used to in the US. But it seems manageable and I’m willing to give up the discretionary income to live a lifestyle where I think I will be happier.

I’ve written enough for now and I really appreciate anyone who has made it this far. You can see I’m at the beginning of this exploration process and I’ll take any help and suggestions I can get. The big questions are will someone hire me and go through the process necessary to get me a work permit and are my budget numbers roughly correct. I appreciate any guidance you can give. Thanks.