There were posts here about a Sony relay thingy that connects two units (one at a time, obviously) to an amp. You can use empeg amp enable wire to control it. So, while empeg is in the sled and awake, it has the amp for itself; otherwise, your HU gets connected. Is that the kind of setup you are looking for?
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