Well stated like that your friends claim is actually true. If one of today's sensors was available at the same size with half the pixels, it would undoubtedly have less noise per pixel. But since no such sensors are available it is not that useful a claim...

And it isn't the same claim to say that sensors back in the day when they had half the pixels they do now were less noisy than today's sensors.
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