Here I was thinking I would get bl;asted out of the water for asking the obvious, yet within hours I have a great bunch of recommendations

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We'd never blast anyone for asking an honest question. We only get upset if someone is being deliberately mean or insensitive. And if someone is genuinely dense, it's hard to talk with them on an intelligent level. And we won't tolerate trolling. But if you're here to ask honest questions and get straight answers, you've come to the right place.