that's what I was trying to explain but i couldn't say it right...always in postion, just because your position matches trck doesn't mean it's in track order...it's still in position...I think this is the type of thing that is easier to understand if you've actually been programming before and you can see exactly why it's done that way...
and I still don't think it's so hard to select the set playlist order everytime you add songs...it sounds to me from his last message that he adds songs and then syncs then sees that it's different and assumes it didn't put them in right...if you watch when you add new stuff, you can see it make it the next position number...