Thanks Zeke, Matthew,Tony, Derrick and Adam (but not Peter ) for all the good advice so far.

T-minus 18 days and counting till I'm no longer a free man . Just wanted to dredge this old thread up in case anyone had any more last-minute suggestions on what to do in the Monterey/Carmel area.

Or, for that matter, feel free to dispense advice on life/marriage in general.