Heres what I want, I installed the tabbed browser preferences extension and it rocks, however I still don't have exactly what I want.

When I click a link say via email, or shortcut or whatever, I want it to open a new tab not take over an existing tab or open a new window. I've been dorking around with the setting in the tab preferences for an hour or so and can't get it to work.
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Brett 60Gb MK2a with Led's