Not that I'm biased, but definitely go with the 5 door Scooby - it is a powerful sports car, but also a nice safe family hatchback. I'm certainly happy driving my kids to nursery, then 4-wheel-drifting it round roundabouts on my way to work. I'll be jealous of your second car though - ours is a Punto (which is nice, but gets twitchy under heavy sliding - keep worrying I'll be able to roll it)