In the case of a certain BBS member, there is a history of that person fulfilling orders in the past, so he had built up a reputation of delivering his goods. The eBay user tanstaafl is dealing with is an unknown to him. No proof, other than eBay feedback, as to whether or not he was legit in running his autions. 6 weeks is unacceptable, especially after he claims he thought his wife sent it. He should've got on it right away and sent it himself at that point. Screw giving him anymore chances. Go for the throat.