Well since my install is not done yet I have my sled laying around here. So here is how mine is wired, perhaps that helps.
The pin numbers for both the tuner connector and the sled connector are below the wires. Easy to find.
TC = Tuner connector pin number
SC = Sled connector pin number
TC 1 => Pink => SC 4
TC 2 => Grey =>
TC 3 => Empty
TC 4 => Black => SC 13 (via ISO plug)
TC 5 => Brown => SC 6
TC 6 => Red => SC 7
TC 7 => Purple => SC 5
TC 8 => Blue => SC 2 (via ISO plug)
Hope this helps.
Cheers,
Hans
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