As I see you prefer 4x4s, how about Volvo V70 Cross Country? A bit more expensive than most of those on your list, but I think it is worth it. If you were in Europe I would have recommended Renault Scenic RX4 on the compact side of the spectrum...

Dragi "Bonzi" Raos
Zagreb, Croatia
Q#5196, MkII#80000376, 18GB green
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Dragi "Bonzi" Raos Q#5196 MkII #080000376, 18GB green MkIIa #040103247, 60GB blue