Now i just need to figure out why my car can't handle the empeg as far as power when my cd player is on.

Where are you getting the power for the two head units? If you are using the factory wiring you may be exceeding what you can pull through crappy 22 guage (or whatever) wiring. You may want to try running power to both units straight from the battery (through an appropriate fuse of course). Likewise, check your grounds and make sure they are solid and to the frame.

-Mike