I may just send all my MP3s and Digital Photos up to a private directory on Dreamhost...

Their support staff has been good at communicating once you get beyond the first message, which is often quick and may not really be exactly the solution you were looking for.

They have also been more stable recently, but fr a long time had severe mail issues that lasted for weeks at a time. The most recent issue caused slow outbound mail delivery for about 6 to 12 hours. At least one of the messages I sent didn't get out that day (but no warnings or other signes were produced - I luckily BCC myself on some of these).