Ok, so I should add "connect pin 14 on the memory chip with pin 123 of the StrongArm" to the write-up.
The problem then is, how do I count the number of pins on the StrongArm? The pin numbering seems clear from the memory datasheet, but it's not that clear from the datasheet for the StrongArm. Or is there a datasheet where I can see which pin is pin #123?
Like this one? But here RAS1 is pin 133? And it doesn't show which pin is the number 133 pin either.