"Gay marriage poses an iminent threat to the American traditional family."

A serious question I'd like to ask is just what exactly are the people that are against gay marriage afraid of? how will this change their lives?

I have heard a number of times that "marriage is a union between a man and a woman" - so what?

should gays be allowed to go to church?
should they be allowed to vote?
how about use the same wash rooms or water fountains?

are they actually any different from anyone else?

is it really in anyone's interest to suppress others?

and the biggie- does the 'right' believe being gay is a form of activism? a choice?