Marriage, as defined today IS under attack.

Ummm... by whom, exactly?

Who is attacking your marriage? If two women in Nebraska want to call themselves married, how in the hell does that have any impact, any bearing whatsoever on the personal relationship between you and your wife?

And if it doesn't, how in God's name (or anybody else's name, for that matter) can you possibly justify the extraordinary arrogance of assuming that it is even any of your business, much less that you should be entitled to do something about it?

tanstaafl.